Thursday, February 4, 2010 Y 10:16 PM
THOUGHT: The Golden Mean is the middle between extremes, excess and deficiency. Too much of anything and too little of anything is disastrous whereas a harmony between the two is perfect.I'll move the world for you, but I won't take your bullshit.
I'll let you take your anger out on me, but I won't let you be inexplicably angry with me.
I'll always love you, but I can still hate you for hurting me.
I'll always think of you as the best, as my only one, but I have doubts about being your only one.
All this ^ I know applies vice versa.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that we both know how it is. We're not blinded by love to ignore when we're being hurt or ignore our own unhappiness for the sake of the opposite sex. I think this is the best way to maintain a happy relationship. If we can both be happy while addressing both our wants and needs doesn't that mean we're a perfect couple. Neither one has to sacrifice him/herself for the other. Also, in doing this, we're being honest with each other and that is key to a successful relationship and .. I think we've been pretty successful ^^
BTW .. I think I'm going through this weird cute phase where I'm like almost trying to suck up to you or I want you to like everything I do. It's a little weird and I'm scared I'm getting clingy ><. I don't want to be clingy but I just want to spend every second with you and I want you to like spending every second with you so I feel like I have to be extra lovable or extra cute or something even though I know that's stupid. Ah .. the dilemma.
